Date nights coffee

Let’s be honest, before you had your children you and your partner used to go on regular date nights. Whether it was watching a movie, visiting friends or simply going on a coffee date you spent plenty of quality time together.

Now that you have children you don’t seem to find the time for each other. This unfortunately often leads to unwanted heartbreak and arguments. Not to worry, there is a simple solution to make things better again and that is date nights. Regular date nights with your partner are very important and it will help you reconnect with each other again. The best part is that grandma and grandpa will love the idea of babysitting!

Communication Is key

The most important part in a relationship is communication. Communication is not just the act of talking, but also expressing ones feelings and thoughts with each other. The way that you speak to your partner will also determine how they will respond back to you.  Besides that, everyone has something to talk about, whether its about a new promotion that you got at work or maybe you had a bad day. We all need a shoulder to cry on sometimes. By communicating to your partner it will show them that you still care about them and their well-being. Plan regular date nights and surprise your partner with a nice outing.

Relax And Unwind

When the two of you go out on date nights and your children are safe at your parents place you can sit back and indulge in each other’s company like you used to before. Being alone together will help you loosen up and think back about the times you spent alone together. It will bring back the fondest of memories and love. You will also notice that you are able to express yourself much better now that you are relaxed and alone. This will help both of you to handle future situations better and you will find ways to calm down sooner.

Emotion And Affection

When was the last time that you gave your partner a big and long hug or a goodnight kiss? All relationships crave love and affection and everyone wants to feel wanted. Show your partner that you still care about them by holding their hand when you go out in public or sit next to them and give them a big and warm hug.


Going on regular date nights will show your partner that you are committed to your relationship.  It will show them that you really care and that you are willing to go the extra mile for the sake of both of your happiness. Just remember to stick to the plans that you made with your partner and not to cancel it without first discussing it with them and you need to have a good excuse.


Who doesn’t love being complimented? Take the opportunity and compliment your partner everyday or whenever you can.  The have been playing a huge role in your life and have always been there for you. You wouldn’t have come so far if it wasn’t also for the role they had played in your life. A happy relationship takes two people to make things work. Also be proud of the wonderful parent they are to your children.

There are so many ideas to have fun together and a date night with your partner will surely change things to be better. Parenting is a hard and amazing job and it requires you to be happy and and you both deserve a lovely break together.

Mamas Blossom


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Leana Lourens

Hi there my name is Leana! Welcome to my blog

I am a full-time working mother of a precious 6 month old daughter and wife to an amazing husband. My passion has always been writing and connecting with people. I blog about lifestyle, parenting, motherhood and family in my free time. I hope to inspire you and that you will enjoy your time spent here with me.

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Leana Lourens